We’re thinking of separating…
Trying to decide whether or not separating is the right decision for you?
Download Chapter 1 ‘Making the decision to separate’ of Splitting Up Together: The How-to for an AMICABLE Divorce for FREE.
This book is for people who want to understand the separation process and how they can approach their separation to minimise conflict with their partner, lawyer involvement, cost and avoid going to court.
Written by divorce lawyer and founder of Separate Together, Siobhan Mullins wrote this book for those people considering separating and those who have separated.
Siobhan’s AMICABLE method demonstrates the nature of the step-by-step divorce process and how simple it can be. AMICABLE is an acronym that stands for acceptance, momentum, interests, consideration, advice, brainstorm, LEADR-to-yes and endorse.
From Chapter 1 alone, you can learn about:
- What to consider when making the decision to separate or not
- Your options in staying together or separating
- The definition of ‘legally separated’
- Who to tell if you separate and who you can speak to to get advice
- The different types of separation agreements (financial parenting, child support, divorce)
- The AMICABLE Method
- Options to reach a separation agreement that don’t involve court
- How to make your separation agreement official (legal)
Click here to download Chapter 1 now.
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