The AMICABLE Separation QUIZ Step 1 of 10 10% STEP 1: YOUR CURRENT SITUATION: These questions will help us to give you the right roadmap based on your scenario.At what stage of separation are you?* I'm thinking about separating from my partner My partner and I are talking about separating My partner and I have separated STEP 2:How long have you and your partner been living together in a relationship?* Less than 10 years More than 10 years STEP 3: From your perspective, what is or have been the reasons that you're at this stage?* Select All I've simply fallen out of love with my partner There has been infidelity (emotional and/or physical) by me, my partner or both of us I've discovered that my partner and I have fundamentally different core life values I am/my partner is in love with someone else I'm unhappy in life generally, and I believe that ending the relationship is the right decision My partner and I want different things out of life My partner and I have simply grown apart We're not able to satisfy one another's needs or wants We've stopped communicating There is little or no intimacy, affection or love I feel that my partner has stopped caring for and about me I feel ignored by my partner I don't feel emotionally or physically safe with my partner The relationship doesn't bring the best out in me I fell into this relationship due to circumstances, rather than my want and choice to be in it STEP 4:Do you and your partner have any children together who are under 18 years?* Yes No STEP 5:There are five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. What stage do you think you are at?* Denial— eg. "this isn't happening" Anger— eg. "how can they do this to me? Why can't anything work out for me?" Bargaining—eg. "things can or will be different if…" Depression—eg. "nothing will ever be right now" Acceptance—eg. "I'm ready to let go and move forward" STEP 6:Where do you feel your partner is at in the grief cycle?* Denial— eg. "this isn't happening" Anger— eg. "how can they do this to me? Why can't anything work out for me?" Bargaining—eg. "things can or will be different if…" Depression—eg. "nothing will ever be right now" Acceptance—eg. "I'm ready to let go and move forward" STEP 7:In terms of your finances, which one of these best describes where you are at?* We have an agreement and want to make it legal We're 85% agreed on 'who is keeping what' but we're stuck on some areas We don't have a separation agreement at all STEP 8:What’s the biggest roadblock that you’re facing right now?* Stuck on whether separating is the right decision Emotions keep getting in the way of us moving forward Superannuation—what to do about it Direction on where to start, what to do and how to go about it Parenting—knowing how to work out our child’s care arrangements Knowing whether our financial separation agreement is “fair” Sorting the paperwork to make our agreement(s) official STEP 9:Have you ever had concerns for your personal safety with your partner or vice versa?* Yes No STEP 10: Great work, you’re finished. Simply add your details below so that we can send you your personalised Separation Roadmap.Name* First Last Email*Where should we send your personalised roadmap? Phone*Where do you live?*ACTNSWQLDVICSANTTASOtherSubscribe to our VIP newsletter!* Yes please No thanks How did you hear about us?* Radio Internet search Friend/family Professional referral Relationships Australia/Conflict Resolution/Mediator Social media Doctor Hairdresser We'd love to know their name so we could say thank you to them!