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Should I stay or should I go? Your options

Darling you got to let me know. Should I stay or should I go?* It’s a good question. When is the right time to call it quits? Do you feel that…

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The AMICABLE Divorce Method

You and your partner can separate and, for lack of a better word, have an amicable divorce. What constitutes an amicable divorce or separation? Well I suppose an amicable divorce…

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The practicalities of child support agreements

If you and your partner agree to contribute financially towards your kids’ expenses above what the child-support agency (Department of Human Services) may calculate to be your legal obligations, you…

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Your Plan B: Why it’s important

In any setting, the purpose of negotiation is to achieve a better outcome than if you don’t negotiate. Once the decision to separate or divorce is made, you’ll typically need…

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Reach a separation agreement without going to court

Typically when a couple separates, there needs to be some agreed outcome reached in relation to the following: If there are children, an agreement about their care arrangements and all…

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A high level explanation of the legal divorce separation process

Your end goal after you or your partner make the decision to divorce or separate, is to reach an agreement together and consider making it official. Couples that end up…

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Making the decision to separate

Making the decision to separate can be hard and it’s scary. The decision requires you to reflect on YOU. The first thing to work out is whether you’re in the…

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A Year in Review 

The beginning of a new year marks the beginning of a time for reflection—reflection about what one is grateful for, what goals were achieved last year and those that were…

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Special occasions from your child’s perspective after divorce 

Birthdays are supposed to be the celebration of a person’s birth day—the day that they were brought into the world. I think it ought to be more of a celebration…

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What do I do next after I’ve separated?  

So the deep soul searching, the romantic weekends away, the date nights and counselling haven’t worked. It’s all been a flop. There is nothing left in the relationship tank; its got…

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